I had one casual lunch with Doug. It lasted about 2 hours and it was relaxed and fun. I felt safe and thought I would go out with him again. He starts texting me a lot instead of calling to talk. This is a red flag because they are not connecting with you as a … More Doug, (8/28/2014)
A guy on Match.com writes me and is telling me about all his educational degrees and it is all over his profile how extremely intelligent he is. He has spent most of his career as a professor at a local University – he says. He mentions that he is semi-retired and currently “tootering” to keep … More Big Fake Brai
Julian – Many years ago. Why do men lie? I was just divorced; I had been married for 16 years. I have always been a gym rat. One of my rules is never date guys from the gym, for all the obvious reasons. It has worked out great. The only problem I have ever had … More Julian – Many Years Ago, But Memorable!
Doug – (11/18/2014). I was a little embarrassed to post about meeting Doug because he is only 43 (I am 61) and I felt really uncomfortable about the whole thing. I am not usually attracted to much younger men. He was very persistent! At my age, you have to appreciate a man with any testosterone … More Doug (11/18/2014)
Dan (11/24-12/3/2014). My first meeting with Dan started out amazing. We spent 2 hours talking and laughing. He was articulate, attractive, and seemed self-confident. I was delighted when he called and set up an actual date at an upscale restaurant. Dan is a Vegan, I am a carnivore. I have dated men in the past with … More Child Abuse, Repressed Memories
Pete (9/5 – 11/21/2014) – Three months of my life I will never get back. Pete says he is 55 but looks older than his pictures. I think he ended up telling me he was 58. He is in real estate and co-hosts a radio show. He asks me out on the weekend several times always … More Pete – 3 Months Wasted
Mike (10/30/2014) – This ranks up there with being one of the absolute worst dates I have ever had. Please keep in mind that I have a sense of humor about all of this. You cannot make this stuff up and it is so hard to believe this actually happens. Mike is running late so … More Personal Grooming?
Some of the oddest ones are the men who have never figured out the simple fact that women HATE liars. When I get a ridiculous lie, it is insulting and the relationship is over. All I can think is, do you really think I am that stupid? *** Bob – we are messaging back and forth … More Liars, Gamers, & A Waste Of Time
One of my first dates on Match.com was with Charles (8/28/2014). He was 73, retired, lived close, and described himself as active. He was involved in a senior’s soft ball league so I thought he would be a pretty healthy guy. It was a bit of a wake-up call for me. I am 61, run … More Charles (8/28/2014)
Match.com – is the dating site I am currently using. There are others and I may try them all. Match has the highest population of men my age. I do not give out my personal information; email, phone, or anything else until after I meet them “In-Person”. Match has a great App where you can … More Match.com, Scammers & Safety