I had one casual lunch with Doug. It lasted about 2 hours and it was relaxed and fun. I felt safe and thought I would go out with him again.
He starts texting me a lot instead of calling to talk. This is a red flag because they are not connecting with you as a person. It is also rude.
Doug texts late one night hinting that we should get together on the weekend, no definitive plan. I let him know that I have previous commitments for this and the following weekend, that I work full-time, and that I have friends I like to spend time with. He gets mad at me!
I tell him that he needs to step-it-up if he wants to set up a date. Doug took this to mean that he should start texting me at all hours of the day. Texting me at 5 am – still not asking me out on a date.
I blocked him on Match.com, phone, and data. Clueless!