This is the sad part of dating. You meet a really nice, kind and respectful person and you just don’t have any chemistry.
Doc is a great guy. He has probably been alone too long. He is a little desperate and is hoping that I will at least give another date with him a try. I think he knows I am not feeling it and it makes me feel bad.
I hate when people waste my time and I try to show others the same consideration. It would be wrong to date him again. He has been a teacher at the same private school for over 30 years. Dating is expensive. I did not give him my card, he does not know my last name or where I live or work.
I will message him and thank him. I will tell him there was not a connection for me and good luck in his search.
Things that turned me off were stained teeth and overweight. Those are so fixable.
I could never see me kissing someone with badly stained teeth. Gross teeth are a huge turnoff. He must have been a smoker. Whitening strips should be a staple in every bathroom. I will be using mine this week!
He also said he was in good shape. He was easily 30-40 pounds overweight. I don’t really care about that at a first meeting. It does become an issue if I have to watch a lot of bad choices while the relationship progresses.
And the beat goes on…..