I try not to judge because people who judge me are so hurtful. People who assume things, spread rumors and gossip are just sad and insecure. Every human being has a cross to bear, some hurdle to overcome, and pain to endure.
No other human being knows your entire story. Your journey, pit falls, and experiences make you who you are. Embrace your own beauty, even if others do not see it. The good people will love you for who you are, keep them close.
We are all such fragile beings. We all make mistakes. We all deserve to be forgiven and go on with our lives learning lesson after lesson as we age. It is a constant.
The punishers are people who deem it their job to make you pay for your sins for eternity. No one on this Earth has a right to punish anyone else for mistakes. I always wonder what kind of internal pain the punishers are trying to hide. People will love you and people will hate you; it will have nothing to do with you.
How long does it take to have stones thrown at you before you finally pick them up and make a wall between you and your punishers? Forgive yourself. Go on with your life and bring happiness to everyone around you.
Forgive your punishers because they too have a cross to bear.