I do not give out my personal information before I meet a man for many reasons. One of the oddest reasons is the “Penis Pic”.
My girlfriends will be communicating with a man they have met through a dating website. He seems nice, polite, engaged, and funny. They are texting back and forth and all seems to be going well – then, BAM! Unsolicited penis pic of someone they have never met.
Never, and I mean never, have any of these women said anything but “gross!” They shut down all communication and wonder; “What just happened?”
What did happen? Why do men do this?
I cannot get the weird selfie of Geraldo Rivera out of my head. His explanation; “I was drunk and lonely.” He is married and his wife’s response was; “This is exactly the kind of thing that happens when I fall asleep first…Thank god we have towels in the bathroom. But I’m proud my husband looks so hot!”
‘Gotta love her, she has a great sense of humor.
It is inconceivable to me that they could possibly think our response would be; “Oh, WOW, what an amazing penis! I want me some of that.”
Cute wiener on a bun!
The following was in an article by Evan Marc Katz and it made sense to me:
“1) Men look for sex and find love. They’re leading with the sex part. Somewhere in their primitive reptilian brains, they think this is a good idea. Objectively, it’s not. I’ve never met a woman who was turned on as much as she was creeped out.
2) Men assume falsely that because they would like to see a naked picture of YOU, that you MUST equally crave seeing a naked photo of them. This is probably the soundest psychological premise I could put forth to explain something so patently stupid. “I showed you mine, you show me yours!” or some such nonsense.”
Another thing I read by a woman is that we see the penis differently than men. We see it from a utilitarian point-of-view, more interested in what it can do than what it looks like. We don’t see them as pretty and want to look at a whole bunch of pictures of penis’.
I have to say the difference between the sexes can be pretty funny. Click on “Funny Video” for a good laugh! It’s what men actually think will happen when they send you their amazing Penis Pic.