I had a meeting with a man from Match.com recently. In our messaging, he mentioned that he would be bringing me a “pre-selected gift”. I told him that I was not sure about the gift thing but, that I would roll with it. Here is what he ended up giving me. I opened it, read it, and was confused. I think it would have been better if he had given me nothing – it was weird. Was I supposed to say “thank you” for nothing? Confused.
I think some men read women’s profiles and look at the pictures so many times that they feel they are in a relationship before they even meet you. They seem to build up this crazy fantasy that you have no wants or needs and that they will just incorporate you into their lives with no regard to first finding out if you fit “together”.
I find it extremely odd. I wonder if women do that as well.
I never heard from him again after our meeting. No one can live up to a fantasy.
Here is my fantasy: